I have been frequenting a particular gaming real-time discussion forum for several years now, and there are a couple particular people in that place that kind of stand out from the rest. One of them very often explicitly uses "she" to refer to herself (assuming that she actually is a "she"), and frequently mentions her "wife". During the several years I have been there, she has been the only person I have ever seen to mention their spouse or partner in any way, shape or form, or to use pronouns referring to themselves. Moreover, multiple times has she mentioned how she's taking "meds" for a particular mental illness. And this completely out of the blue, without being prompted in any way, or it being mentioned to excuse or explain some kind of odd behavior or incapability of doing something. Perhaps even more egregiously, she has several times mentioned illnesses of her "wife", which starts crossing the boundary between mere egoism ...